- Oral stage is very important. If you don’t get what you want, actually just food, drink, and diaper change, from your mom, you might have a fixation on this stage. You might become a giant baby always thinking the whole world owes you. You demand something and have to be satisfied immediately.
- Anal stage. I feel our Chinese is either too harsh or too messy in potty training. We have a lot of people with low ID and high superego who follow their authorities strictly.